Where are you going? What are you doing? What do you want? What are you chasing? What does your life look like? Where is the ultimate destination? Or more simply, what are you creating in order to achieve a specific goal? If there isn’t a clear answer to the above questions, life for you right now should be about aligning attitudes and behaviours, so that outcomes truly reflect authentic wants and needs.

Achieving goals is NOT as easy as people make out i.e. set a goal, do some activity, achieve goal, set new one, etc..There are many forces at play conspiring to keep you from your goals. Most of all, our brains, which long for homeostasis. As things are. To change them is a big ask. But certainly doable.

For too many, there’s a disconnect between what they want and how they spend their time. Fog mists over decisions, making it difficult to see the wood for the trees. A big part of this is that people don’t know who they are, so at a foundational level, it is difficult to know what the right move is.

‘What would be the best way for me to spend my time?’ Whether you have all the metaphorical space in the world, or if your life is spilling over at the seams, the problem remains the same. People are unsure how they should be living their lives. And for most, they haven’t given themselves the space to even start contemplating.

This is the first step in solving this problem. The various stages before setting goals are crucial and they are set out below:

  1. Understand ‘Now’
  2. De-clutter your life
  3. Develop identity

From this place of clarity, everything is up from here. Now it’s time to grow and achieve. Time to build.